I've been chatting with an old friend this morning. We've known each other for years: we met when we were just getting started in our careers; we were in each other's weddings; I was there when her first child was born. We've grown old together. We've been through births and deaths, job changes and retirement, and even over time and distance, we're still good friends.
We talk as often as we can, catching up and sharing the news. We tease each other, we gripe about our troubles, we tell each other the stupid things we've done lately, reminisce and tell bad jokes. Sometimes we push each other to grow. Sometimes we cry together. Sometimes we roar with laughter until we have to wipe our eyes.
You know, as we walk through this big old world, we don't need a crowd of people to walk beside us. But the road is so much easier if you can share it with a few people who care. Or even just one. One good friend.
Someone who smiles when they see your name come up on their phone; someone who laughs at your jokes and listens to your complaints. And someone you can care about, pray for and stand by in dark times.
They're the ones you call when you just got a new job, when you've had a weird dream or ruined the casserole or hate your landlord. They're the people who know you well enough to give you a good talking-to when you need it, and remind you that you matter. You can do it, they say. Don't give up.
And you do the same for them - listen and care. You make each other better people.
This Valentine's Day, I hope you have somebody in your life like that.
Oh, I hope you have lots of family - a spouse or partner, kids perhaps, and even grandkids - and that today you can hear their beloved voices. But don't forget to say a prayer of thanks for the dear friends in your life.
Here's to the people that make you laugh, that know you inside and out, the people you call in good times and bad.
Pick up the phone or knock on the door, send them a smile or bring them a cupcake.
Take a moment to show them you hold them dear.
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